thanksgiving with spice

 

Can I start this post with a little honesty?

I hate Thanksgiving posts.

They’re predictable. They’re never funny. And they’re boring.

I know, I know.

We should be thankful.  I’m glad you are thankful. Truly, I am thankful, too! It’s just that … well … I’m pretty sure I already know that we’re all thankful for our family, for all the pies, mashed potatoes, turkeys, and green bean casseroles that we’ll stuff ourselves with tomorrow, for our house, our car, and that Aunt Betty’s leg is feeling better, even though she fell down the stairs again this week.

I get it.

We all get it.

Who isn’t thankful for all of those things?

I guess what I’m saying is that I’m not a fan of being Captain Obvious.  And in my prayers of thankfulness this year, I don’t want to be predictable.

Or ho-hum.

Or ungrateful sounding, because I can’t think of anything I’m really thankful for.

So keeping that in mind, here is my spiced up list of things I’m grateful for today:

  • Music.

Ok, that’s not all that original. But it does bless me so, each day. It helps me be focused on Christ, rather than myself as I go about my household duties. It calms my nerves and makes me want to sing! God bless Pandora!

  • New life in the midst of grief.

My mother-in-law died on my birthday back in June. Last Friday, her newest granddaughter, Elsie Raeann, was born. While I’m deeply grieved that Jeanine won’t be joining us to slather that baby with the love she deserves, I’m also deeply grateful that the Lord continues the cycle of life. She’s so very precious. And perfect. Just … absolutely perfect, and in a lot of ways, exactly what our hearts need this holiday season. I know if Jeanine were here, she would say, “Thank you, Jesus!”

  • Real relationships.

In a world of social media, blogs, and texting, I am thankful for the real relationships in my life. For my husband, who sticks by me like glue, even when I’m a crabby patty. For my kids who love me, even though I’m no Carol Brady. For friends that help me through the deep waters of spiritual struggles and personal difficulties. I am one blessed lady when it comes to real relationships. And … I’m pretty blessed when it comes to social media relationships, too. ;)

  • The sanctification process.

By grace, I have been justified. And now I’m in the sanctification process, where God is slowly molding me into His image. Where would I be without this? I would be hopelessly wandering in my troubles and sufferings with no direction, no purpose. I’m thankful He is faithful to keep chipping away at my shortcomings, convicting me when I need to be convicted, and enabling me with His power to change my ways. I know one day, I’ll be called to the end stage of glorification. I’m thankful for each stage, because each is equally as important. However, I think I look forward to that end stage the most!

  • Stories.

Yes … stories. There’s nothing better than luscious plots and dramatic endings. I am and will always be a sucker for well written books, plot filled movies, or a good chat with an older person who knows how to tell it like it used to be. I honestly can’t imagine a world without good storytellers. (I’m currently reading The Help, by Kathryn Stockett – sooo good!)

  • Art.

Paintings, pictures drawn by little ones hanging on my refrigerator, a gorgeous sunrise … they’re all delicious.

  • The little things.

A baby’s toothless smile, a friend’s hug, any picture perfect moment, the myriad of colors that surround us each day … roses. We should stop and smell them more often, and make an effort to notice the itty bitty things that seem insignificant. I know God is in every one of them, and that He very often whispers His love to us in these little ways, rather than shouting them to us with something grandiose. Like the Toyota truck I’ve been wanting ….

Just sayin’.

And last, but not least …

  • The alphabet.

Yep. I’m thankful for all 26 letters. Each day, they’re like a little puzzle for me. I have an opportunity to arrange them in ways that will tell a story or bless the holey (not holy!) socks off of someone. And if you think about it, this is is what God chose to leave us until He comes for us again. All 26 letters, perfectly arranged in the most beautiful love letter ever written.

What’s not to love about that?

How ’bout you? What’s on your thankful list? Tell me in the most colorful way you know how!

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5 Responses to “thanksgiving with spice”

  1. Even though our daughter, son-in-law, and 2 granddaughters will be moving next week from Arizona to Oklahoma to take a new church, I’m thankful 1) that they’re the kind of family I hate to see move, instead of “I’m glad they’re gone”; 2) I’m thankful they’re healthy. We have dear friends whose son is in stage 4 lunch cancer; 3) I’m thankful they are still alive as we have several friends who have lost children; and 4) I’m thankful they seek and follow God’s will, even though it means leaving their family.

  2. Whoops! I mean our friend’s son is in stage 4 LUNG cancer (not lunch; must be thinking of Thanksgiving dinner today!).

  3. Mollie says:

    Brenda, I love this post and how real it is! And I have to say, there must be so much joy in your life to be able to recognize the little things.. and to remember the phrase that will stick with me from this post: I am thankful because He is faithful!

    Thanks for offering a fresh, passionate perspective on our Thanksgiving season; I know it is easy to have a “watered down attitude” about Thankfulness.

    Happy to find you here, as well :) Don’t know why the comment button wasn’t working on my blog, but your comment made my day! – <3 Mollie

  4. Monique says:

    What a great post! I love how creative you were and I totally agree about the blah, predictable thanksgiving posts all over the web. I’ve never thought to be thankful for the alphabet, but I have to agree with you. I’m also thankful for the alphabet. :) My other, big “thank you God” is flowers. I love that they grow wildly in my back yard and I love that there are millions of different kinds of plants all over the world. I know it’s sappy, but they just bring me so much joy. Flowers remind me of God’s creativity and attention to detail. :) Anyway, thanks for stopping by my blog and now I’m following you. :)

  5. Jamie says:

    Ok, I am a little late to the party…but better late than never, right? I found myself being very thankful for predictable things this Thanksgiving. I know, I know…you said to think of something more original. It is just that the rest of my life tends to be a little bit on the crazy side with new crisis situations showing up all the time. And all of the chaos made me really happy to sneak away into some of the predictability that I have know since childhood…right down to the stuffing made from the box, and the family fawning over Black Friday ads, and grandpa sending back his pumpkin pie several times until it was brought to him “just right”. So predictable…I could have scripted Thanksgiving day! And I loved every ridiculous minute of it!

    Next year, I will be more original. I promise!

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